Key Eight: Lightheartedness
¨Don’t be too seriously in love! If you don’t know what I mean, I am telling you not to get too emotional. ¨Example: you don’t have to starve in hunger till he comes back at 2 am and make him feel guilty by waiting. ¨Example: you don’t have to feel too guilty if you wake up late (say first time in the last three months) and he rushes without having breakfast. ¨ Common, fifty years of marriage has many crooked roads and ups and downs…you have to very tough and light hearted to endure all this!