Third Key: Communication 
¨You are not magicians nor mind-readers to understand each other’s minds, especially in the initial years.You are just husband and wife with human strengths and failures. ¨Tell him if your hurt, ask him to let you know if  he feels bad. Speak, Tell, Talk, Chat, Discuss, Share views, Argue, Fight….do whatever feels appropriate, but essentially keep communicating.
¨Remember, silence is not golden in a marriage!