First Key: The
difficult change from ‘I’ and ‘Me’ to
‘We’ and ‘Us’.
¨You are viewed as an individual, before you get married.
After you get married, both of you will be viewed as one single ‘unit’ by the society.
¨This implies that your actions will affect him and his actions will affect you.
¨Your behavior ‘together’ communicates your strength as a
couple.
¨No matter what happens, the rest of the world falls on
the one side and you both together, form
one ‘unit’. (This excludes even your
children!)
¨That’s why, marriage is considered so sacred, so important.