First Key: The difficult change from ‘I’
and ‘Me’ to ‘We’ and ‘Us’.
You are viewed as an individual, before you get married.
After you get married, both of
you will be viewed as one
single ‘unit’ by the society.
This implies that your actions will affect him and his
actions will affect you.
Your behavior ‘together’ communicates your strength as a
No matter what happens, the rest of the world falls on the
one side and you both together, form one ‘unit’. (This
excludes even your children!)
That’s why, marriage is considered so sacred, so